Iyo uguze imyenda y'abana, ababyeyi akenshi bakeneye gutekereza kubintu bibiri: ibikorwa bifatika. Imyitozo ikubiyemo ahanini ibikoresho, ubukorikori, imyaka ikoreshwa hamwe nigihe cyibikorwa byikositimu, mugihe ubwiza burimo igishushanyo, ibara, imiterere nuburyo bwiza bwikoti.
Mbere ya byose, ibikorwa bifatika hamwe nuburanga ni ngombwa. Mugihe cyo kugura imyenda yabana, ababyeyi bakeneye gutekereza kubintu nkimyaka yumwana, ishusho nubushobozi bwibikorwa, bagahitamo ibikoresho nubukorikori kugirango babone ireme kandi rirambye. Muri icyo gihe, birakenewe kandi gusuzuma imyaka n'ibikorwa bikurikizwa mu kirego kugirango utange amahitamo meza ku mwana.
Icya kabiri, ubwiza ntibushobora kwirengagizwa. Iyo ababyeyi bahisemo ikositimu y'abana, akenshi bakeneye kwitondera ibintu nkibishushanyo, ibara, imiterere nuburyo bwiza bwikoti, kugirango barebe ko umwana yorohewe kandi afite umutekano kwambara, kandi bishobora kwerekana imiterere yumwana nuburyohe. .
Kugirango ugere ku guhuza neza kwingirakamaro hamwe nuburanga, ababyeyi bakeneye gupima uburinganire hagati yabo mugihe baguze amakositimu yabana. Kurugero, urashobora guhitamo ikositimu ifite uburyo bworoshye ariko bufite ireme, irinde igishushanyo cyiza cyane, kugirango bitagira ingaruka kubitekerezo byabana no kubitaho; urashobora kandi guhitamo ikositimu ifite amabara nuburyo butandukanye kugirango ushishikarize abana gutekereza no guhanga.
Muri make, guhitamo ikositimu y'abana nuburyo bwiza bwo guhuza ibikorwa hamwe nuburanga. Iyo ababyeyi bahisemo ikositimu, bakeneye gusuzuma byimazeyo ibintu nkibikoresho, ubukorikori, imyaka ikoreshwa hamwe nibikorwa. Muri icyo gihe, bakeneye kandi kwitondera igishushanyo, ibara, imiterere nuburyo bwiza bwikoti, kugirango batange amahitamo meza kubana babo. Kura wishimye muburyo bwiza no mubwiza.